"Every step forward begins with a moment of awareness, no matter how small." 📱
Dear friend on the recovery journey,
Can I share something close to my heart with you? When I was first lying in that hospital bed, paralyzed by GBS, I desperately wished for a roadmap - some way to navigate this unexpected territory I found myself in. Today, I want to share with you what emerged from those challenging days - an approach that helped me find my way back to connection with my body, one gentle step at a time.
Your Guide Through All Seven Stages
The AWARE method we'll explore today serves as a versatile framework that adapts to your needs across all seven recovery stages. In the early stages of Initial Shock, Reality, and Resistance, this method helps create stability and understanding. As you progress to Acceptance and Active Engagement, it deepens your practice. In the final stages of Integration and Living Your Purpose, it becomes an effortless part of how you navigate life.
The Birth of AWARE
You see, this method didn't come from textbooks or theory - it grew from real moments: those six days of complete stillness, the first flicker of returning sensation, learning to walk again, and even finding my way through grief while recovering. Each letter represents a step I discovered was essential in my own journey, and now use to guide others on their unique paths:
A - Assess: Meeting yourself where you are, with kindness W - Witness: Learning to listen to your body's whispers A - Adapt: Finding your own way forward R - Respond: Taking steps that feel true to you E - Evolve: Growing through each experience
Let me walk alongside you through each step, sharing what I've learned while honoring that your journey is uniquely yours.
A - Assess: Meeting Yourself Where You Are
You know that moment when you're trying to figure out where you are on a map? That's what Assessment is like - but instead of judging where you "should" be, it's about understanding where you are right now, with gentleness and compassion.
I remember lying in that hospital bed, unable to move. At first, I felt so frustrated with my body. But then I realized - this moment of complete stillness was actually my first lesson in true assessment. It wasn't about measuring what I couldn't do; it was about noticing what was actually happening, with curiosity instead of judgment.
In this phase, we simply:
- Take stock of our current reality with kindness
- Notice patterns without trying to change them
- Honor our starting point, whatever it may be
- Create a gentle baseline for our journey ahead
A Note From My Heart to Yours: Assessment isn't about finding what's wrong - it's about understanding where you are, so you can honor each step forward. Remember, every journey starts exactly where you are. 📱
W - Witness: Learning to Listen Deeply
During those days of paralysis, witnessing became my only option - and surprisingly, my greatest teacher. When we couldn't rush to "fix" anything, I discovered something profound: our bodies speak to us constantly, sharing wisdom in the quietest of moments.
Think of witnessing like listening to a dear friend who has something important to share. It involves:
- Observing sensations with gentle curiosity
- Noticing connections between emotions and physical responses
- Recognizing patterns in your energy and tension
- Building trust in your body's messages, one moment at a time
A - Adapt: Finding Your Own Path
Here's something I learned the hard way: no two recovery journeys look exactly alike. When I was relearning to walk, I had to find my own way of moving forward - quite literally! Some days that meant taking actual steps; other days, it meant resting and gathering strength.
Adaptation is about finding what works for you:
- Creating modifications that honor your needs
- Discovering creative solutions to daily challenges
- Respecting your body's unique timing
- Building sustainable practices that feel right for you
R - Respond: Taking Aligned Action
There's a beautiful difference between reacting and responding. In my recovery, I discovered that thoughtful responses - actions that truly aligned with my body's wisdom - created lasting progress. Think of it like dancing with a partner instead of forcing moves.
This means:
- Making choices that honor your body's messages
- Taking steps that feel authentic to you
- Celebrating each small win along the way
- Building momentum through actions that feel right
E - Evolve: Growing Through Each Experience
Evolution isn't always about big leaps forward. Sometimes it's about the quiet moments of realization, the gentle shifts in understanding. When my father passed away at the one-year mark of my recovery, I learned that evolution includes honoring all parts of our journey - even the parts that feel like stepping back.
Evolution welcomes:
- Celebrating progress of all sizes (yes, even the tiny wins!)
- Learning from challenges with gentleness
- Integrating new awareness at your own pace
- Building resilience one experience at a time
Walking This Path Together
I know firsthand how overwhelming it can feel to implement new approaches when you're already navigating recovery. During those early days, I wished for not just a method, but a way to track and celebrate each tiny step forward - even when those steps felt more like whispers than strides.
That's exactly why I created the Recovery Journey Mapping Tool. Think of it as your personal companion for the AWARE method, helping you:
- Track your unique path through each phase
- Document your discoveries and insights
- Celebrate every breakthrough, no matter how small
- Build confidence in your recovery journey
- Create your own personal roadmap forward
The tool is designed to work alongside the AWARE method, offering practical ways to implement each step while honoring your unique journey. Whether you're experiencing dramatic shifts like I did with GBS, or navigating more subtle challenges, having a structured way to map your progress can transform how you see each step forward.
As you begin working with these principles, you may notice questions arising about how to adapt them to your specific challenges or recovery stage. I've found that different recovery stages benefit from specific adaptations of these core principles. In the Complete Recovery Journey Guide, I've detailed how to apply the AWARE method across all seven stages of recovery, with specialized practices for wherever you find yourself on this path.
If you find yourself wanting more structured guidance as you implement these principles, the Complete Recovery Journey Guide provides daily, weekly, and monthly practice frameworks specifically designed to make these concepts practical and sustainable, no matter where you are in your recovery.
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How AWARE Supports Each Recovery Stage
The AWARE method adapts to support your unique needs at each stage:
**Stages 1-2 (Initial Shock & Reality):** Assessment and Witnessing help you establish basic stability and understanding of your current reality.
**Stage 3 (Resistance):** Adaptation and Response tools help transform frustration into meaningful action.
**Stages 4-5 (Acceptance & Active Engagement):** Witnessing and Evolution deepen your practice and build confidence.
**Stages 6-7 (Integration & Purpose):** The entire method becomes integrated into your daily life, supporting both your continued healing and your ability to help others.
Remember: This method isn't about perfection - it's about progress. Each step forward, no matter how small, is meaningful. You're not alone on this path.
I'd love to hear what speaks to your heart: Which aspect of AWARE resonates most with where you are right now? Share below - your insight might be exactly what someone else needs to hear.
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Coming Tomorrow
Tomorrow, I'll share "5 Daily Practices for Better Body Awareness" - simple, practical techniques you can begin implementing right away to apply the AWARE method in your daily life.
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